Be Happy Why Worry

If you think critically, you would find that it is really no use worrying about anything.  It is really foolish to worry about past or future.  Nobody can change the past.  How can something that has yet not come to pass affect us. How are we so certain that the future is so miserable. Things may turn out well. Worrying just tires us and diminishes our capacity of clear thinking and planning.  It promotes negative thinking.  Instead of worrying we should use positive affirmations and resolutions. If worry could solve the problem, everybody would worry as much as possible.  Problem solving requires clear thinking and planning.  But worry makes us powerless of clear thinking and planning.  Many things, if they are going to happen, will happen despite of our worry. If it is going to rain, it will. We worry for small things.  The worst-case state of affairs may not even be bad enough to worry.  You have made your boss angry.  You worry that he may fire you.  What of it?  That is not the end of the world.  You are still alive.  Perhaps you would get a better job.  You dread to go to the office next day.  You think of sending in your acceptance letter.  Worrying you reach office.  The boss calls you.  He apologizes. It was his mistake Instead of useless worrying, one should take positive action BE HAPPY.

Career Overdrive

People who show boldness at work are usually the ones who get noticed, get promoted and enjoy salary raises. Of course, brazenness is different from fierceness. Superiors tend to get in danger or turned off by the latter. But not everyone is born self-confident. And not everyone is a natural star employee. If you want to develop brazenness at work and be rewarded for it, follow the tips below. Strong Participate in General Meetings You know you have good ideas. So why not terrain them during meetings? It might not be feature of you to speak up; but if you really want to develop brazenness at work, this is your first challenge. Once you have gone through this beginning, you’ll find yourself having an easier time speaking out. Having the spotlight on you is not always a bad thing. If you have sensible ideas, the boss will definitely take notice of you. Your superiors will start considering you for other projects and before you know it, you’ll be up and running for a promotion. Be An Active Listener. Asking questions is also a form of assertiveness. It shows the speaker that you are genuinely interested in what he is saying. The whole process becomes an exchange of ideas and opinions. However, don’t make the mistake of asking a question which was already covered in the person’s talk. That will just give that person the impression that you were not listening at all. Strong Show Confidence in Every Aspect strong Self-confidence is very important in the workplace. As much as possible, avoid second-guessing yourself. Or at least, avoid revealing how unsure you are about something.